My Sass-mouth Mother Tongue: What Parenthood Has Taught Me About Personhood - A work in progress ...
With respectfully provocative and honest prose the collection of essays, My Sass-mouth Mother Tongue, explores the struggle to accept that we are complicated beings trying to understand, and improve, who we are, as people and parents. The memoir reflects on vital aspects of life like: words, how we choose to use them, and how the words we choose reflect our formative experiences; setting attainable goals and reaching laundry Nirvana; navigating existential questions raised in Pre-k; the mysterious magnetism of boys to guns; Pre-school pee policies and the politics of tolerance; practicing selflessness, versus selfishness, when the people around you want all of you all the time; and the unfortunate extinction of the dictate “go play”.
It’s not a “momoir”. It’s not solely about mothering. The realm of motherhood is only the setting for situations that spark ruminations on issues effecting every person like language, politics, death, juice, violence, spirituality, laundry, limits-setting, self-valuation and volition, groceries, the art of doing nothing, movies, and existentialism.
Essays included:
“My Sass-mouth Mother Tongue Is Not For Everyone”
“Pre-k: An Introduction to Existentialism”
“Insight In The Sights: Target Practice and an Unexpected Kickback of Understanding”
“Laundry Nirvana: Learning to Set Some Goals”
“Naming Alice: Articulating the Ineffable While Under the Influence”
“Speaking For Her Comes Easier: the Semiotics of Infancy and Adoration”
A full book proposal and sample chapters will be available soon on request.